First, know that no one has the right to make a pregnancy decision on your behalf. The option you select affects you most, and you deserve total control over your situation.
While it’s understandable that your partner has certain fears or concerns about your unplanned pregnancy, he cannot pressure you into having an abortion. You deserve to learn about all your options and select one that aligns with your unique circumstances.
If you’re experiencing this kind of pressure, know you’re not alone. Azar House is here to help with confidential services. Continue reading to learn more about how to navigate this situation.
Perhaps your partner wants to sway your pregnancy decision because he is worried about how options like parenting will impact him. For example, he might worry about the responsibilities of being a father.
While these concerns are understandable, abortion is a serious decision with risks and side effects. Your partner may be unaware of the support available for other options.
Setting clear boundaries and reminding him that it’s your decision can reassert your control over the situation. Inviting your partner to attend an options consultation and speak with a male counselor at Azar House can also provide extra support.
Remember, if you are in an abusive relationship, you deserve safety. Abuse of any kind is unacceptable, and help is available. The National Domestic Violence Hotline provides 24/7 resources to help you move forward.
Before selecting an option, you’ll want to confirm critical pregnancy information to keep yourself safe. After a positive pregnancy test, we’ll arrange for a limited obstetrical ultrasound.
This scan verifies that your pregnancy is progressing, its location, and how far along you are. These details can clarify your options and determine whether you’re experiencing a miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy (which will need treatment).
You have three options for your pregnancy: abortion, adoption, and parenting. Learning about each can help you make an informed decision you feel comfortable with.
No matter where you are in the decision-making process, we’ll listen to you and offer factual information. You can ask questions in a pressure-free environment where your situation and concerns will be respected.
We are here for you—regardless of your situation, know you are not alone.
We’re here to help with free services and information. We believe in your ability to make an informed decision for your future!
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Azar House does not provide or refer for abortions.